Hi, we’re Duane and Lauren Spires, if you're reading this, there’s a good chance you're feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or maybe even hopeless in your relationship right now... And we get it because we’ve been there too.
For over 10 years, we lived under the weight of guilt, shame, and silence in our marriage.
We looked like we had it all together on the outside... Successful careers, a beautiful family, even smiles for church on Sunday... But behind closed doors, our marriage was breaking. We were breaking.
Our #1 fear was that people would find out that we faced:
Financial ruin
Infidelity
Addictions
And the kind of emotional disconnection in our marriage that hurts worse than any other pain.
We hit rock bottom.
But it was in that rock-bottom moment that we made the decision to try "everything..."
We joined Facebook groups for marriage help
We read marriage books
We watched every YouTube video possible on marriages
We tried marriage counseling
We joined small groups at church
We did all of these things and tried harder than ever before to fix our problems, but they didn't work permanently because they only focused on symptoms....
We knew time was running out.
After trying everything, we finally discovered the simple answer that ultimately restored our marriage and allowed us to have the unity we always wanted.
The moment we discovered the deeper (hidden) root causes of our problems, we healed from our past, reconnected, and moved forward together.
Through this deep, honest, Spirit-led work, we exposed the lies we had believed about ourselves, each other, and God. Lies that had created fear, isolation, and false identities in our marriage.
And guess what?
That is exactly what saved us.
We broke the chains that were keeping us bound... and today, we walk in freedom, unity, and unshakable honesty. Our marriage isn’t perfect, but it’s stronger than it has ever been, because we’ve built it on truth.
This is why Unchained Marriage exists.
To be the lifeline for couples like we once were... To show you the real path to restoration, and to remind you that Freedom and Unity is possible for you.
We’ve watched marriages be transformed, time and time again, when couples finally stop hiding and start healing.
So if you’re struggling, please don’t stay silent like we did for so long... Reach out and avoid the trial and error approach that so many people fall into.
There is hope.
There is healing.
There is Unchained Marriage.
And we’d be honored to connect and walk that journey with you.
In Christ's love,
Duane & Lauren Spires
Unchained Marriage
Hi, we’re Duane and Lauren Spires, if you're reading this, there’s a good chance you're feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or maybe even hopeless in your relationship right now... And we get it because we’ve been there too.
For over 10 years, we lived under the weight of guilt, shame, and silence in our marriage.
We looked like we had it all together on the outside... Successful careers, a beautiful family, even smiles for church on Sunday... But behind closed doors, our marriage was breaking. We were breaking.
Our #1 fear was that people would find out that we faced:
Financial ruin
Infidelity
Addictions
And the kind of emotional disconnection in our marriage that hurts worse than any other pain.
We hit rock bottom.
But it was in that rock-bottom moment that we made the decision to try "everything..."
We joined Facebook groups for marriage help
We read marriage books
We watched every YouTube video possible on marriages
We tried marriage counseling
We joined small groups at church
We did all of these things and tried harder than ever before to fix our problems, but they didn't work permanently because they only focused on symptoms....
We knew time was running out.
After trying everything, we finally discovered the simple answer that ultimately restored our marriage and allowed us to have the unity we always wanted.
The moment we discovered the deeper (hidden) root causes of our problems, we healed from our past, reconnected, and moved forward together.
Through this deep, honest, Spirit-led work, we exposed the lies we had believed about ourselves, each other, and God. Lies that had created fear, isolation, and false identities in our marriage.
And guess what?
That is exactly what saved us.
We broke the chains that were keeping us bound... and today, we walk in freedom, unity, and unshakable honesty. Our marriage isn’t perfect, but it’s stronger than it has ever been, because we’ve built it on truth.
This is why Unchained Marriage exists.
To be the lifeline for couples like we once were... To show you the real path to restoration, and to remind you that Freedom and Unity is possible for you.
We’ve watched marriages be transformed, time and time again, when couples finally stop hiding and start healing.
So if you’re struggling, please don’t stay silent like we did for so long... Reach out and avoid the trial and error approach that so many people fall into.
There is hope.
There is healing.
There is Unchained Marriage.
And we’d be honored to connect and walk that journey with you.
In Christ's love,
Duane & Lauren Spires
Unchained Marriage
Gwen and Matt stopped drinking alcohol, learned how to create unity in their marriage, and found true intimacy again.
Gwen and Matt stopped drinking alcohol, learned how to create unity in their marriage, and found true intimacy again.
Duane Spires
Co-Founder
Lauren Spires
Co-Founder
Mason Cain
Chief Executive Officer
Marisa Acosta
Chief Operations Officer
Mateo Acosta
Content and Design
Julian Simhoni
Content and Design
Alisson Loor
Operations Assistant
Alfonso Cisneros
Operations Assistant
Duane Spires
Co-Founder
Lauren Spires
Co-Founder
Mason Cain
Chief Executive Officer
Marisa Acosta
Chief Operations Officer
Mateo Acosta
Content and Design
Julian Simhoni
Content and Design
Alisson Loor
Operations Assistant
Alfonso Cisneros
Operations Assistant
Most marriage programs focus on symptom-level fixes and surface solutions. They offer communication tips, conflict resolution strategies, and emotional check-ins—but often skip the spiritual surgery required for true restoration.
But real freedom in marriage, as defined in Scripture, demands something deeper...
A full rebirth of the relationship.
A dying to self.
A willingness to surrender.
And a bold invitation for God to rebuild what’s been broken.
(2 Corinthians 5:17 – “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation.”)
At Unchained Marriage, we lead couples through a guided, 90-day transformational process that gets to the roots of the pain, the patterns, and the spiritual warfare affecting your marriage.
This system has been refined through years of real breakthroughs and thousands of changed lives.
We walk with you so your marriage experiences true freedom.
That’s our commitment and that’s what makes this different.
We don’t just offer advice.
We offer Biblically grounded, God-inspired guidance designed to get you out of the way so God can do what only He can do—restore, rebuild, and renew.
A truly UNCHAINED Marriage rises from the ashes of the old.
Old habits.
Old hurts.
Old pride.
We know what it feels like to wonder if the love will ever come back... To fear that admitting there’s a problem might make everything fall apart.
But what if that collapse is exactly what God wants... to build something brand new from the rubble?
He didn’t lead you here by accident.
Click the button below to watch the video and discover what God has in store for your marriage.
In Christ’s love,
Duane & Lauren Spires
Founders, Unchained Marriage
Most marriage programs focus on symptom-level fixes and surface solutions. They offer communication tips, conflict resolution strategies, and emotional check-ins—but often skip the spiritual surgery required for true restoration.
But real freedom in marriage, as defined in Scripture, demands something deeper...
A full rebirth of the relationship.
A dying to self.
A willingness to surrender.
And a bold invitation for God to rebuild what’s been broken.
(2 Corinthians 5:17 – “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation.”)
At Unchained Marriage, we lead couples through a guided, 90-day transformational process that gets to the roots of the pain, the patterns, and the spiritual warfare affecting your marriage. This system has been refined through years of real breakthroughs and thousands of changed lives.
We walk with you so your marriage experiences true freedom.
That’s our commitment and that’s what makes this different.
We don’t just offer advice.
We offer Biblically grounded, God-inspired guidance designed to get you out of the way so God can do what only He can do—restore, rebuild, and renew.
A truly UNCHAINED Marriage rises from the ashes of the old.
Old habits.
Old hurts.
Old pride.
We know what it feels like to wonder if the love will ever come back... To fear that admitting there’s a problem might make everything fall apart.
But what if that collapse is exactly what God wants... to build something brand new from the rubble?
He didn’t lead you here by accident.
Click the button below to watch the video and discover what God has in store for your marriage.
In Christ’s love,
Duane & Lauren Spires
Founders, Unchained Marriage
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